When my dad died 12 years ago his personal possessions were few and only filled a tiny suitcase. There were photos, documents, address books etc but he wasn't one to save cards.
However, I found that he had already bought me a Christmas card ( he died in the summer on my husband's birthday) and so I would have received it later that year.
He had also saved one - rather sad looking - little pressed flower card that I had made him in the mid seventies.
He never showed sentimentality - but was from an age when men just didn't do that, but there was a softer side to him. Dad had a watercolour of mine on his chimney breast which my brother ( who completely stopped all contact with dad once dad became infirm) always said was 'rubbish'. This didn't matter to me though as I knew dad liked it.
It's the little things which count...



















